What can not be forgiven a man?
Naturally, each woman has her own trait, her own level, to which she is ready to step on her throat, make compromises, but after that she will not listen to any apology and remorse, but simply collect things – his or hers. Of course, love and close relationships sometimes make us reconsider our views, sometimes even change them. But nobody can force themselves to change. If the dark box where the grievances hid, and with them the hopes for a brighter future, is full, if there is already no strength to forgive something that, in general, should not be, then, probably, the time has come to become free – and from mental torment, and from a burdensome relationship. So where does the point of no return begin? In treason. Despite the fact that many still argue on this topic, the majority – both women and men – agree that adultery cannot be forgiven. No, of course, you can try, but again, you need to step on your throat again. In addition, the bitter aftertaste of suspicion and mistrust will still haunt for a long time, if not to say – the rest of his life. In the assault. God created a woman from Adam’s rib; not from the foot to be humiliated by him, not from the head to be smarter than him, but from the rib – to be equal to him, from under the arm to be protected by him, and from the side of the heart to be loved. If, instead of becoming a reliable rear for a woman, a man humiliates her, asserts herself in her strength, hurting someone who is weaker, he is not a man. In addition, respect is one of the pillars on which love and the foundation of a strong relationship of man and woman stand. Beats – it means, does not respect, does not respect – it means that you no longer have love, but a disabled person limping on one leg. So is it worth fighting for? In male egoism and narcissism. A selfish man is already evil by definition. And if pride is added to this in addition, it turns out that the compote is completely wrong. And this definitely does not need to be forgiven. Firstly, because a woman next to such an instance will always be assigned only secondary roles. And secondly, because relationships are always a tandem. And if a man does not understand this, concentrating all his attention on his beloved – a tablecloth is dear to him. In greed. And after reading this word, one does not need to recall female calculus and mercantile spirit. We are not talking about chic gifts, expensive bouquets and getting stars from the sky. But when a man for two hours analyzes the economic profitability of buying another pair of tights – you need to run away from him. In dangerous addictions. Practice has shown that, unfortunately, in most cases there are no former alcoholics, drug addicts and gamers. There are only rare exceptions. Passions for a toxic and virtual world supplant elementary human values. Man does not control himself. If you don’t have enough money for the next binge or an hour in the Internet club, it brings from the house everything that can be sold or exchanged for what you want. And the woman at this time is nervous, worried, suffers shame and shame about the negligent spouse and constantly “patches” the family budget with all her might. So there you go! Woman is not created for this! She is a mother, wife, mistress and keeper of the family hearth, and not the Ministry of Health, a moral reader, a great martyr, and a workhorse all rolled into one. In insulting relatives. If a person does not respect the people who gave birth and raised you, then he does not respect and does not love you. And if you build a relationship in a couple not on respect and love, then on what and why in general then build them? Cruelty to children. If you can still close your eyes to something about yourself (alas, many of our compatriots have a role in the psychology of relationships called the role of the victim), then this cannot be tolerated in relation to children. A small person should not live in an atmosphere of violence. Moreover, he cannot protect himself. In this case, not only the maternal instinct, but also common sense should suggest that there is nothing to do next to the tyrant and despot. Photo: Depositphotos Each woman who reads this material will, of course, supplement or change this list. But the fact remains: not every situation can be found a way out, and it’s not always worth looking. Forgiveness is an art, it’s like spring cleaning for the soul. And if everything is already destroyed in the soul, cleaning up does not make sense.