“The less a woman we love” … Is Ignor the best way to fall in love with a woman?
I remember in my youth I liked one boy. We were familiar with hats, “hi-hi,” no more. And so, in order to somehow draw attention to myself, I took the habit of walking the dog in his yard. And to the courtyard there were seven versts and three hooks. But I stubbornly hung out on the patch next to his porch. Sometimes we met, talked. And then he accidentally liked me. And it was his turn to run. But he, unlike me, did not begin to walk his dog in my yard, although he had a dog. And he just kept me safe and laid all the truth in my face. What about me? Did you enjoy it? No matter how. I was upset and began to avoid him. The goal was achieved quickly, and the struggle lost all meaning to me. It turns out that the hunting instinct is developed not only in men. The guy should not rush to show his affection to the girl, this is a fact. Women are moody, and from the words “where did you go?” To “you got me!” There can be one call. But these are just flowers. Over time, a woman learns to distinguish who is in front of her: yap or business man. To remove earrings from it and hang noodles in their place becomes more difficult. And by the age of 35, weapons like ignore are increasingly misfiring. A woman prefers not to waste time on the games of the mind, they are in vain uninteresting to her. An emotionally mature person is in no hurry to like someone, her own spiritual comfort comes to the fore, she begins to think about who she likes first of all. Contrary to popular belief that a woman loves with her ears, the majority of young women who know their own worth will not be seduced by anyone. Even if this is anyone who will be the most flooded nightingale in their environment. They are drawn to those men who do not differ in eloquence. They say about such people: “a man of work.” A friend of mine did not pamper me with attention, he was always busy. I was hungry for information, considered myself abandoned, resented of him. At first … Photo: Depositphotos Everything developed in an amazing way: we didn’t see each other very often, but as soon as I needed some help or advice, this person came out of nowhere and, as a magician, solved all my problems. All that was needed was a clear statement of the request. And I realized that this is how character is manifested – a real, masculine one, which incredibly combines the desire to care and the thirst for freedom. A real man does not talk about problems, he solves them. He does not need the help of a woman. Sometimes that person consulted with me, but did not soar the brain with philosophical discussions about the meaning of life and being, nagging, complaints, agony of choice, resentment and other sourness. He coped by himself. I tried to do the same to the best of my ability. We simply respected each other and cherished as best we could. Calm trust turned out to be much more important than good-looking oh-sighs and, all the more, undercover games with the goal of splurging each other’s eyes. But this is not the end of the transformation of the female perception of men. With experience, a woman does not just become selective, she already clearly understands not only who is in front of her, but also what made him what he is. Indeed, at times it’s enough to look at the boy to understand which man will grow out of him. And only a small part of women, especially emotional, stuck in their youth, still go on demonstrative ignore, play these children’s games, flicker, hysteria and fuss … After years, reading books to children, I found that in fairy tales, like folk and copyright, such a deep philosophy of life is hidden that we had understood it before, we would not have lived like that. What is the story of the transformation of the Kuzka dominos into Babenysha-Yagenysha? It seems to me that this story should be read to all women, expectant mothers – especially. The bottom line is that if you want to make a rag out of a guy, do everything for him, sweep and strew his life path with lilies, protect him from the wind, console and pity him, take on all the hard work, nurture his vanity, hurry to do everything desires, apologize, justify and protect him, even when he, as they say, wipes his feet about you. Then he will completely lose his will. But it will always be with you – like carry-on baggage, because he can no longer find fools like you. But if, despite all your efforts, he remains a man in his soul, he will get away from you to the first person he meets, which will remind him of this.