How to find a husband via the Internet? The hero is not my novel
I understand the peasants at a glance or without words at all, like them me. I don’t need to prove something to them with foam at the mouth, select the right, neat words, guess the mood. It is enough to say as it is: what is the problem and how do you see its solution. And they will tell you whether you are right or not, with which you simply agree or not. But as for women, this is a completely different comedy – or rather a tragedy: you can give her arguments, facts, to say that the sun is shining and the water is wet so that none of the words you uttered are heard. And all is simple because she didn’t like your tone or, for example, she has a “wrong” mood. Firstly, women are completely unable to perceive criticism. Neither constructive, nor any. Totally. Deciding to criticize a woman is like declaring war on her or telling her honestly that she is fat. At work, they will push, pretend that they are so advanced and with both hands for constructive criticism that they are even grateful to you for pointing out errors, because constructive criticism allows you to grow above yourself, develop, etc. Photo : Depositphotos But know that at the moment when you decide not to say what she wants to hear — but she wants to hear the praises addressed to her, like that crow in Krylov’s fable — and that she is doing something imperfect, she he will hate you sincerely. However, men also have a problem with this, since it can no longer hurt her sense of ideality and perfection, but his sense of professionalism and ambitiousness, although it is much easier for him to admit that he is imperfect and even slobber somewhere than she does. Secondly, all women are somehow created in such a miraculous way that they seek agreement and common ground with each other (the famous female collective mind and solidarity), they are friends against someone or try to defeat him. But with men, on the contrary, they are doing everything to contradict, oppose and disagree, if not in everything, then in many ways. Photo: Depositphotos Agree, if you do not frankly flatter, don’t give some stupid compliment, or don’t tell her something that is a bit deeper than banal household affairs or gender relations, her first reaction to your opinion, position or statement is disagreement, contradiction or outrage. Saying “no!” Immediately is like a bonton, and much more correct than saying “yes!” Right away, even if you really want to. After all, you have to break down, get your own price, then to lower the sails before the one to whom you have been proving “no!”, “No!” And “no!” With all your fibers and gills… “YES!” Say something, that at least somehow is not consistent with generally accepted principles, norms, rules of cooking or housekeeping, how you immediately provoke a sincere dislike of yourself (from love to hate, one step is about it). Well, or, conversely, admiration if the woman is a rebel, for example. She will understand little from your rebellious speeches, but will pay attention to your extraordinary and charisma. Photo: Depositphotos Thirdly, to discuss with a woman and even more so try to prove to her that she is at least a bit wrong, that means throwing beads and chasing the wind. The so-called “female logic”, or rather, the lack of logic, which is replaced by emotional pressure, eloquence, inconsistency and the desire to be right in all cases, even when she says “Well, I’m wrong,” really exists. And it doesn’t matter whether the deputy, scientist or logician is such a woman. She is a deputy, a scientist and a logician, secondarily. And first, always a woman. Which, incidentally, is very proud of internally. Because the logician is a vocation, and the woman is nature. Trying to convince a woman about something, if your nose is simply unsympathetic to her or she is just used to thinking – or rather, to repeat – in a different, practically and theoretically impossible way. To force one to turn off the intended course — to marry a second time, in spite of his first husband, or by hook or by crook to beat out an apartment, for example — how to make a rhino gain speed when it stops. Moreover, most women are very proud of their rhinoceros persistence, just as a man would have been proud of his ability to concede and not participate in disputes with a woman. To force a woman to agree with you, if for some reason she does not intend to agree, how to rape her. But in such cases it’s worth simply changing the pressure to caress, changing the tone and manner, without changing anything in the content, as you look – she is Eva Brown, and Hitler is already a sweetheart and lover of lapdogs for her. Fourth, by some natural miracle, women are convinced that the men around are created in order to use them in their own, female, interests. True, they will not name the term female entrepreneurship in the male side: the word is too rude, ugly and truthful. And the truth for a woman is the enemy of the beautiful. From here “knights”, “gentlemen” and various “real men” were invented.