Why does a man ignore a woman he likes?
Now, many authors of the works, psychologists, and just ordinary men believe that in our century the existence of feelings like love, described by Pushkin, is gradually coming to an end. That the increased speeds of our lives, the desire for success, power and money make us armor-piercing, and feelings, including love for a woman, bounce off us like stones from iron. Of course, this is not so. However, some men, especially young ones, believe that a certain rudeness towards a woman (of course, within reason, otherwise it goes into insults) gives their behavior a certain masculinity and “coolness”. And the consequence is often that a woman, especially young and inexperienced, believes that this man ignores her. In fact, this is not so at all. There may be at least two options. Very often, such behavior of a man (especially young, although in our time the concept of “youth” often extends to the age of 30, or even 35 years) is just a mask, which hides either inexperience in relationships, or fear not to justify the confidence of this woman or be insolvent in some kind of relationship. Well, and the second option – maybe he doesn’t really like her, and he doesn’t try to hide it. From the first reason, the second follows. It consists in the fact that one of the most common current male qualities is infantilism. After all, about 80 years ago, a 20-year-old boy was considered an adult, and now about a 30-year-old his mother can say a phrase such as “he is still young to marry, he was only 30”. And this can be said, even if several years have passed after the beloved son broke his thirties … Photo: Depositphotos And as a result, such a young man is simply afraid to bind himself with some kind of obligations, because a woman needs to be taken care of, and later children may appear . And what kind of children can we talk about if he himself is a child? Such a woman needs a special woman who would take the initiative and bring this “adult child” to the state of a man, at the same time defeating his mother (which is often a more difficult task). And the negative experience gained by a man as a result of relations with women also does not contribute to positivism in his relations with them. After all, the insult inflicted by a woman becomes a strong blow to male pride, and it takes a lot of effort and time to throw off the negative received. And the time required for this also depends on the strength of character of a particular man. Being under the influence of negative experience, it is difficult to determine your attitude to a woman. A situation may arise that the woman you like will not meet the expectations of the man. Here I do not take into account her financial failure, which does not satisfy the man. Calculation relationships are not the subject of this article. I want to talk about the behavior of a woman, her level of intelligence. After all, even a very pretty girl can scare off another man only by “opening her mouth”. If a man is intellectually developed, then he will not be able to build a relationship with a woman who does not match his level. Well, she may just not understand why this seemingly pleasant man abandoned her. Many men may not like some women’s habits. For example, smoking. Now everything goes to the fact that there are more smokers among women than men, and those who do not want to have a smoking girlfriend next to them have no choice but to make her give up her habit. Or he will have to part with her. Although options are possible here. Photo: Depositphotos Or the man does not like the fact that the woman does not interfere with other men flirting with her. For some, this will only provoke and flatter the fact that their woman is paid attention to, another will not like this behavior. Depends on the nature of a particular man. In general, the last three reasons, in my opinion, are “curable”. People tend to change, and a woman can, in order to please a man, change her behavior, or abandon bad habits. Now the situation in the world has changed a lot, even in comparison with the approach to life that existed thirty years ago. Concepts such as political correctness, globalism … And feminism. Of course, it existed before, but only in the 21st century did it acquire, as it were, legislative forms. That is, if the punishment for rape has always existed (at least in the 20th century), then such an offense as “sexual harassment” is unlikely for more than 20-30 years. But this is an article of the Criminal Code of many countries! And in many countries, many politicians, managers, and high-ranking military personnel have become victims of this article.