How to find a husband via the Internet? The whole world is a theater!
It may also happen that, being completely fascinated by the process of correspondence on the Internet, you will suddenly open on your first date that, it turns out, he was just abandoned by a girl with whom they had been in a relationship for two whole years. You think: what a fool she is! He is smart and handsome! And what was she missing? Here you have this! Wait, what does he need? But he really needs a friend now who can complain about the treachery of the one who abandoned him. Do you think that you will become his friend first, then smoothly transfer to the category of a mistress, then already a wife? It’s a delusion. He is with you because he wants revenge. With you, he licks the wounds that another inflicted on him. With you he is not a man, driven by the desire to find a wife, but a weak and wounded beast. And as soon as he feels better, as soon as he feels like a man, as soon as he has mastered his previous experience and is ready for new achievements, he will leave you. Because you are not a woman for him, you are a transit point. The fact is that, having taken pity on him, unconditionally accepting and sharing his point of view on what is happening (he is good, but she is bad, stupid, did not appreciate such a person), you became his mother. And the fact that you sleep with him (?), Took away his last opportunity to become interested in you as a person. At the epicenter of attention now, he and his problems with one, the other, and not his interest in you. Look, he would go to a psychoanalyst for help in order to recover after the collapse of his hopes and aspirations; he probably would have to pay for her time and professionalism. In addition, she would have forced him to look at herself from the side, which means that she would admit her own mistakes, which led to a break with the same girl. And certainly he would not have had sex in the office of a professional psychoanalyst. And in the case of you, he has all the bonuses, and you don’t have to pay for anything! He gratefully accepts the proposed body. He will pour out his soul for you, recover and go to free bread. Your soul has remained behind the scenes for him, which means that it does not hurt his being. You were busy healing his wounds. As a doctor – rejoice, as a woman – do not make mistakes that will make you hurt and want to complain about life again. Fate has nothing to do with it, it was your choice. Maybe something else. You sit with a man, and catch yourself thinking that he is ticking off his script. So, it was (paella, coffee, cake, ice cream), and it was already (wine, cinema and dominoes), now sex is planned. Are you not ready? Well then – “goodbye!”. And thank God – goodbye. This one is not yours either. Very rarely, but it happens that you have a talented person in front of you, like M. M. Zhvanetsky, for example. Well? Enjoy the evening spent in his company. And move on, because in fact he is absorbed in himself and his unconditional talents. He, again, is self-sufficient, if not yet married. Even life can bring you a meeting with a graphomaniac. With him you were fine in correspondence. Such, you know, intellectual masturbation. But as soon as you turned out to be really opposite to each other, he was completely squandered and hardly imagines what else can be done. Maybe he repeats with delight in admiration that you, without a doubt, are the gene pool of the nation, you can see everything. And then silence. The apogee of your characteristic surprises can be a meeting with a person who honestly admits that it was not he who chose you for correspondence and dates. His friend (or even him) wrote an algorithm program … He set all his requirements and necessary parameters … And now the machine gave him the result: you are his ideal candidate! Therefore, he came to see you firsthand. So to speak, professional interest: how much can you trust artificial intelligence in solving such complex problems. And what? He’s clearly not a fool! After all, he simply optimized the process that you do manually every day! Of course, you can try with this. True, there is a danger that the solution to all further problems of life together will also be entrusted to the machine, issuing the most optimal option. But what about your feelings and stuff? Sorry, you weren’t standing here. I suppose it’s time to admit that so far all the normal candidates you have selected are not in fact what you were looking for.