How to find a husband via the Internet? Calm, only calm!
On the other hand, it is easy to imagine your fatigue and emotional exhaustion from your experiences. Still would! Soon, almost six months, as you conscientiously seek out your future husband in a pile of completely worthless, as it turned out, profiles and unnecessary people for you! Most likely, looking around the gallery of heroes you’ve passed, you scold yourself for having taken this path. Meanwhile, just at those moments when you least expect it, fate gives the brightest and best meetings. It is important here what is more in you at this moment: mental fatigue or still desperate expectation. If the first, then you go on a date with one goal – to find out what exactly is wrong with this candidate. You probably smile memorized, maintain a conversation by inertia, and at this time you dissect the interlocutor: what he said or, God forbid, already did the wrong thing. This is what really matters of your interest. Accordingly, your vis-a-vis and sees a female robot, a car that ruthlessly filters out the entire surroundings in search of its flaws. Imagine how difficult it is for him to survive in such a situation. Surely he will understand that you can’t relax for a second and, moreover, will have to be in endless competition for leadership. But he, too, was tired of looking! It is unlikely that he will want to get into all these difficulties. Photo: Depositphotos But it was with him that “happiness was so possible!”. If there is more optimism in you than disappointment, then you will automatically face another danger. Suppose, suddenly, you understand that the man on the contrary is the one whom you have been looking for so long and hard! Everything converges: smells, sounds, manner of holding on and speaking, politeness, courtesy, courtesy … And here it begins to carry you! Feeling your soulmate, you are obsessed with the desire to tell you what a long way you have overcome in expectation of meeting with him! And if he still knew how few intelligent and decent men in the world! So few that you have almost lost hope of the possibility of their existence in general. And finally, such a gift of fate! What?! Do you personally have enough minds not to overload your partner with everything experienced? I doubt it. Didn’t I have to stop you in the first part with a request not to force events? And you want to assure me that after six months of searching, you are completely tired and lose hope and suddenly find what you need, you will keep Olympic calmness? It is good to! But the general rule says that when a woman finally finds a man who is suitable in all respects, she so eagerly unleashes a crushing flurry of her passions, hopes and aspirations that the poor, he only thinks of how to survive this force majeure and get out alive alive. Photo: Depositphotos The bottom line is that at the moment of your unwavering confidence you gain the destructive power of a tornado sweeping away everything in its path! That is, the element, which if you like it, then certainly not close. Infinitely admiring him, you throw off the terrible burden of responsibility on his unprepared shoulders! First, it’s hard not to understand you! Well, really, how should he perceive your rich experience and the statement that everything that came before him was not that ?! And moreover, against this bleak background he is suddenly what you need, according to your statements! If he is an intelligent person, then, of course, he doubts whether he really is as good as he seems to you. And here are such advances! He is scared and strange, what do you actually want from him ?! Not to mention the fact that he has not yet decided for himself whether he wants to meet your expectations. Indeed, how do you know that he has already gone half his way in order to be able to understand you? Maybe this is only his second or third date. And he can’t appreciate what luck it is that it was you who turned up to him. He needs time to realize what kind of treasure you are. So give him that time!