How to find a husband via the Internet? “We choose, we are chosen; how often this does not match! ”
But more often it happens that for some reason you get stuck in bed, not moving off the ground. For example, you are not quite sure that you want to marry just this person, or your partner is in no hurry to call you a wife. If you stop the development of the plot, you doubting that the chosen one is good and suitable for husbands, then soon you will feel bad at the mere thought that he was only 780th in a row! But what if the ideal is waiting for you somewhere at the junction of 890 and 891 profiles? Or maybe he is hiding in the next ten, or even in the last hundred ?! What then ?! For the rest of your life, scolding yourself for saving and cowardly agreeing to a surrogate? Maybe just a second from true love ?! If this is the case, the surest solution is to keep your relationship to a minimum. Admit to the partner that you do not feel like a suitable couple. Yes, exactly, and not vice versa! After all, by refusing, it is necessary to give him the opportunity to save face and self-esteem. Photo: Depositphotos Above all, take time out in a relationship. Otherwise, you simply will not be able to search. It’s too troublesome, you see, to have a relationship with one and at the same time be in search of another. In this case, you will inevitably lose concentration, alertness, observation and, most importantly, your time, which is already almost gone. And I still do not touch on the moral aspect, where you look bad and very bad, trying to sit on two chairs. But if you play honestly, not reassuring your partner with false promises, then you have every right to look for your own in the remaining two hundred profiles. At least you did not step over yourself, which is important. Plus, you now have a friend, right? Maybe right now you are ready to look at its shortcomings in a different way and are more loyal? Photo: Depositphotos Of course, it is far from the fact that he is still waiting for you. And it’s better for him, if he’s not already waiting. For, by agreeing again to a relationship with you, he recognizes his dependent position and thereby, possibly dooms himself and you to the evil infinity of similar situations in the future. Agree, most likely, he is destined for life as a backup airfield. And you will probably always be mentally in search of a better option. You say: “It can’t be!” And I’ll say that life is much richer than the most incredible storylines that you and I can come up with or envision. It is a completely different matter if a partner is tormented by questions regarding you, as a wife! And he is not in a hurry with the proposal, while you – even now! And all of him is missing something, but why? Nobody knows. And now you already suffer painful expectation and endless doubts: what is wrong ?! And each next day more and more alienates you from the seemingly almost accomplished happiness. Photo: Depositphotos I think in this case for you the delay in death is similar. Do not waste time thinking that you will starve him or circumstances will be in your favor. Think, have you really waited for twenty years and / or searched for your man, so that later you can walk with your outstretched hand, begging for what you should and can rightfully claim ?! Do not try on the role of the victim and do not turn your life into a solid sacrifice. An unenviable role. Even provided that everything goes as you planned, these relationships will not please you as they could and should after all your efforts. Moreover, at the very first quarrel, your husband will remember everything where the main among other things will be, how inappropriately you married him to yourself. Agree, this is much more painful than all the previous ones. Remember, it’s better to be hungry than to eat anything? This is just about you now. There is another option, when both are well and good … And most likely, they are waiting for some objective circumstances to push them to decisive action. And in general, why is it better if everything is so good? But more about that in the next article.