How to find a husband via the Internet? “To be or not to be?”
In addition, morality depends on the geographical location to the same extent as on religious beliefs. What is moral within one country is immoral in another. So in this case, only what you think and feel when trying on a civil marriage is important. Here I will specially emphasize that all cases of fictitious divorces and, accordingly, civil marriages for material reasons are not the subject of consideration now. If you ask, do I know a lot of happy civil marriages? I will answer: I know. Not only … Moreover, they cannot be called happy in my opinion. Rather, each of the partners in these respects looks pretty battered, but not defeated … in their beliefs. And if they are happy, then most of all by the fact that, in their opinion, are insured from marriage, as well as from divorce. However, as with everything that this institution means by itself. In my opinion, in such relations there is no responsibility of partners to each other. Instead, there is a falsely understood freedom, which is actually irresponsibility and cowardice. If freedom is understood as a conscious necessity and a measure of one’s responsibility, the conclusion inevitably suggests that the freedom of one is just as much freedom as it does not violate the freedom of another in this tandem. And in formally unlawful relations, a man who does not call for marriage, just limits the woman’s freedom to seek and find a legal spouse. For what is her status? Formally, it is free, while in reality it is not. And that is what makes her vulnerable more than anything else. Agree, in fact, the position of a common-law wife does not differ much from the status of a lover. Photo: Depositphotos Was it worth it to strain so much to fuck so little? In real life, such inferior relationships without special efforts and the Internet could be more than found. As for when the two trust their life to how the circumstances will develop (for example, pregnancy first, then marriage), I will say that this option is easily reduced to the previous one. Psychologically, a woman who wants to have a child is likely to crave a legal marriage. And if she does not have the status of a wife, then she is automatically placed in a situation where she needs to prove at least her fertility. In fact, everything looks even worse because only after having become pregnant, or even having safely given birth, she has the right to raise the question with an edge. And it seems like it’s not for myself, but only because of the child. This is humiliating, agree. Photo: Depositphotos If a man declared a desire to have a family and lives with a woman who convinces of his love, then it’s time to make her an offer and get married. And if it happened that he has some, even very weighty (in his opinion), arguments for some reason to postpone this decision, you have all the appropriate counterarguments. For example: – A stamp in your passport means nothing! First, experience shows what it means. Secondly, if it doesn’t mean, then why so afraid to go and put it on? “Are we so bad?” – I feel bad, I want to be a wife. “If I want to leave, I’ll leave anyway!” – Of course, – me too! And in this case, we will definitely divorce! – And all these are formalities that do not change anything! – Perfectly! If they don’t change, moreover, please marry! – Become a wife – take everything from me! – I agree to a marriage contract! “Well, really, which of my husband ?!” – With a good woman, a man can become a man! A man in a civil marriage involuntarily makes it clear, and first of all to himself, that he is free from obligations, while in reality he should not have had a relationship with you.