Man and woman. Is stability a sign of skill?
Each of us has such friends or acquaintances, isn’t that so? Yes, and we ourselves sometimes behave no better. About the causes of this phenomenon – in the presented article. Ranunculus is the Latin name, and in Russian – buttercup. It is so called for its fierce disposition: all parts of the plant are poisonous. By the way, Juliet was poisoned just a decoction of buttercups. But how to resist if the buttercup is a bride’s flower, comparable in beauty to only beautiful roses and velvety juicy poppies! No way! That is why for the third time I became the thoughtless owner of the buttercup and anemone bulbs. Upon reaching home, she decided to revive the memories of agricultural technology of the newly acquired wealth. And then it throws me into a fever. It turns out that none of these species winter in the open ground! Yes! All this, of course, was listed on the packaging from the very beginning, but who reads the inscriptions on the fence? Moreover, I myself know all this. And how long. For two years now – from personal experience. All my efforts suffered a crushing fiasco. Expensive planting material flew into the trash, either without blooming, or not hatching from the ground at all. Then I suddenly remember how twice I had given myself the word to buy and plant only that which does not require special care. And in general, I have children – the flowers of life! And on you! All my experience at once vanished at the sight of these insidious tempters. Here, dear girls, it dawned on me that it was no accident! Earlier it seemed to me that we had to be crazy to step on the same rake with the tenacity of a drunk, and now I know for sure that we are not to blame. Perhaps this is the fault of nature, which endowed us with a sense of beauty, or maybe the weather, or maybe something else. This is completely unimportant! Just like me at the sight of buttercups, every time you lose consciousness, contemplating, as it seems to you, an extraordinary, or simply put, an abnormal man. You completely forget that in everyday life you don’t want to bother and bother with his endless whims and whims; that you do not love narcissistic egoists; that you really don’t like when you are humiliated or imposed or hypertrophied by existing complexes in various fields, etc. Photo: Depositphotos Instead, you “are ready to give everything away right away for your beloved eyes!” And you know why? Because in fact, unlimited faith in yourself and your strength! That is, overestimate your capabilities. You are so confident in your irresistibility that you feel like an Amazon who can change the usual way of life, and at the same time the laws of nature. At that very moment, you are knee-deep in the sea and everything on the shoulder! That is how it seems to you when you really lose consciousness from the sexual fluids of that same alpha or sociopath, charisma, or anything else that you have imagined and what you believe in. And all because you are true to yourself! The question is what to do? To start, be happy for yourself. So to speak, to realize the strength and power of your talent to be so selective that you never make a mistake in your choice and, God forbid, not change yourself! Well, then direct your crushing energy into a peaceful channel. What does this mean in practice? For clarity, back to buttercups. For example, my first thought after consciousness returned was to make everyone well! That is, immediately give everything acquired to their wealthier acquaintance, who has her own house and a winter garden, and a greenhouse, and adult children, and most importantly, there is a desire to mess with these exclusives. Photo: Depositphotos “That buttercups! ..” – as you think. Believe me, in the case of your original, there will always be a couple of those who, due to various circumstances (from boredom, for example, or simply because they still do not realize the disadvantages of this state of affairs), will be glad to receive it from you gift. You do not have such friends? Leave it on the big road of life. Surely someone will pick up. Don’t worry about him. Can’t or don’t want to? Suppose you don’t want to go by and admire your “flower” in the window of someone else’s house? Yes, completeness, because you, like no one else, already know that this is just a facade and an exterior! A side view – and not that! Not convincing? The thought that everyone will admire the treasure of others that you have found and given again is haunting you! And you?! Again “without anyone” ?! And really, who, besides you, is interested in how things really are? Guests come – they don’t look into the back rooms. And everything looks fine! If so, then here is another option. We leave buttercups and anemones in our “pantry of the sun.” And at the same time, we admit that we are happy to have all this hemorrhoids at home. Are happy! And we are ready to devote our lives to studying the rules of agricultural technology in our unique and, accordingly, to endure all the inconveniences associated with this. Is always! And the third – alas! – not given. Except that the Alphonse and the sociopath are already a passed stage, but the child from this is in your hands. Photo: Depositphotos Also not the edge, I tell you. You can console yourself with the fact that in this hybrid there is 50% of you.