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Which women scare men away?

Have you noticed that some women, no matter how attractive and pretty they may be, have no relationship? I’m sure that more than once. And if so, then it is not only a matter of appearance, but rather, of spiritual characteristics hidden in the secret corners of the female heart. Photo: Depositphotos Having fumbled around these corners a bit, the man quickly understands who he is dealing with and runs away from the woman (or at least moves away to a safe distance) if he encounters one of the types that we will discuss below. I foresee standard objections like: “All these types of your nonsense – I’m just like that, and the men curl around me!” But there are different men, and their goals are different … And even if now the woman is sure that the men who show towards her interest, are beautiful and wonderful, after a while she will be able to verify the opposite. Well, now we turn to the types themselves. Men bypass a woman if it is … Type No. 1. Virgo in trouble Virgo in trouble is a character who endlessly plays out the behavior model of an innocent victim. This woman will constantly tell the man about her unsuccessful relationships, about friends or relatives who betrayed her, about boyfriends who circled her around the finger or changed her, etc., etc. In her style, divide people only into two categories: good and bad. Moreover, at first she would rank many men as Heroes. For a while, he will be able to feel like “The only worthy” or even “Savior”. Photo: Depositphotos But not for long. Usually, each “Savior” after some time replenishes the list of bad guys about whom she will tell about the next “Only worthy” one. Such women often get hung up on their physical ailments, personal injuries and family troubles. It seems that in life she is only interested in one side, and she is not the brightest. Obviously, after meeting, in the process of courtship, people open up to each other, share their stories from life, and many of them can not do without painful memories. The only question is whether such women learn from traumatic experiences. Virgins in distress enjoy the role of sacrifice and almost never talk about what they learned from past mistakes and suffering. Their basic installation can be described in the following words: “Everything and everyone enters my life, only to make me feel bad.” When a man reads this mental structure, he does not want to be next in the list of offenders and quietly dissolves on the horizon. Type No. 2. Princess There are princesses “right” and “wrong”. We turn our eyes to the second option and see what is inherent in such women. She considers herself above all. She mistreats people. With any. With waiters, with staff, with strangers, and even with my grandmother. Photo: Depositphotos She behaves as if the people around are much lower than her class, status and value. She almost never thanks if you open the door in front of her, put in a coat or move up a chair. After all, he is a serf – why on earth should he say thanks? Everyone owes her. And even more so, men who, in some unknown way, began to look after her. An important feature of such a person is the fact that she directly requires a man to make substantial financial investments in himself as evidence of the seriousness of his intentions. The Princess at the expense of almost any man has unrealistic, very high expectations. Again, at first, on the first wave of courtship, a man can become her Prince, but in the end it will still be in the category of “subordinates” – this is only a matter of time. The man feels this and leaves the Princess in search of a more adequate person, able to show empathy for other people and, at least, elementary politeness. A normal man is absolutely not interested in enduring humiliation because of the Princess’s painful desire to appear taller than other people. Type No. 3. Competitor The next female character, next to whom adequate men do not linger for a long time, is the Competitor. This lady comes first in her own success. Communicating with her, a man constantly hears stories about her victories and achievements, while the man’s life and successes are practically not of interest to her. Photo: Depositphotos In her behavior, a common line is drawn from a number of trifles: she tries to get a certain advantage both over the man and over all other people who surround her. She is constantly in a state of competition, not only external but also internal. Competition captures her, as a result of which she emits irritability in the background and is much more likely to aggravate conflicts than to constructively resolve them. A rival often uses flirting with other men to provoke her current gentleman into jealousy. In this way, she wants to show the man that he was wildly lucky that she even paid attention to him.

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