how to maintain interest in each other

Mine, yours and ours: how do we lose ourselves in a relationship?
Here she has time for her ladies' affairs - to go shopping, make a mask, chat with her friends. And he has his own personal time - to play a…

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The Four Horsemen of Domestic Violence: striking - means love?
The terrifying prevalence of this phenomenon suggests that the mechanisms that are triggered in the psyche of the victim are not rare and abnormal phenomena, but quite characteristic of many…

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Why are men no smarter than women?
It is generally accepted that women are beautiful and men are smart. However, to any thinking individual, regardless of gender, it might seem that there is some kind of conspiracy…

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Some differences between a man and a woman, or How to become happier together?

Glamorous magazines replete with such information and abound in various types of talk shows, but knowledge does not seem to help us learn to better understand the relationship between men and women. Meanwhile … Everything is much “worse” and deeper. According to statistics, more than 60% of all couples in the Russian Federation are divorced in the first ten years of marriage. And they get divorced, as in that film, because “they did not agree on the characters” – they did not understand each other. Continue reading

Why is he not getting married?

“How to make him marry,” “10 ways to drag a man to the registry office” … And again, “How to marry him.” Feel the mood, huh? I’ll leave aside the thought of why forcing someone to do something in a relationship. To begin with, I propose to understand in which cases a man wants to marry, and in which – no. On the male side, there are two necessary (but not sufficient) conditions for marriage: 1. He reached the stage of emotional maturity. Continue reading

What do we put in the meaning of the relationship? The Tale of False Goals and Lost Values

And more often than not, in search of this meaning, we withdraw into ourselves. Instead of talking, sorting out what’s the matter, we are silent and are not trying to fix something, or we are trying, but not mutually. We believe that it is easier to tear everything apart than to contribute your own work and build something more solid, something that was before. We think that it is better to immediately push away if it does not work out, and it is easier to blame the other than to try to figure out your own mistakes. Continue reading

She loves him, but he does not: why does passion pass?

In the book of the famous psychologist Dean Delis, there are answers to all questions: why do people fall into the trap of passion, how to change wrong patterns of behavior, how to return loved ones and even revive old feelings. “Do you love me? ..” No matter what the incipient feelings turn out to be, the first sensation is the same for everyone: enthusiasm and unbridled fall into the abyss. But the enthusiastic dizziness from love does not last forever. Continue reading

How to live a woman after a divorce?

A woman complains that she constantly compares a new man with an ex-husband in favor of the latter, while spending time together with a new boyfriend, an ex-spouse does not get out of her head. A more detailed analysis confirms that she has strong feelings for her ex-husband. Say to yourself: “Stop!” Divorce in psychology is classified as a crisis situation and takes third place after death and imprisonment. Emotional trauma during divorce has a great impact on a person, often depriving him of the ability to function in the previous mode. Continue reading

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Harmony in marriage: what do we really want?
For example, you can perceive the partner’s discontent as his personal flaw. You feel bad - that means you're hysterical / yourself to blame; your problem - you understand. In…

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Why is the best husband "overeating pears", or How to survive the breakup?
It’s always like a fiery hell, it’s always a catastrophe, powerlessness, this is a state of shock: you have grown together at a special level, you have intertwined ancestors and…

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How to increase concentration and awareness? Eleven life hacks to work efficiently
Set a time for distractions Let's say a colleague came not just to chat, but to discuss the project. But now you are too busy to talk - especially if…

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Which women scare men away?
Have you noticed that some women, no matter how attractive and pretty they may be, have no relationship? I’m sure that more than once. And if so, then it is…

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